More Entries on The Road Map: Dying

More Entries on The Road Map: Dying

When I write about my experiences working with over 1,100 people living with dementia and their families, I think of it as “a way to somehow make sense of what can often feel inexplicable,” I recently told my readers. “It’s a way to try to construct a road map for...
A Few Markers on The Roadmap of Grief

A Few Markers on The Roadmap of Grief

Updated August 6, 2017 Making A Roadmap I try to share something that would be helpful to you in my blog posts. Something about communication, “behavior” management, planning ahead, making the decision to move to memory care, medications, what have you....
A Woman Worth Knowing

A Woman Worth Knowing

A Woman Worth Knowing The call from the staff came at 9:46 AM: Florence had lost her ability to swallow.  Things progressed quickly from there. I’m glossing over the details now, the things that all families go through in the final days.  It’s too raw...
A String of Good Days

A String of Good Days

Updated 9/23/17 A String of Good Days I have again succumbed to the “string of good days” syndrome, not realizing I was adjusting my definition of “good” along the way.   Quality of Life When I was interviewed a couple of months ago for a story in the Portland...
A String of Good Days

A Hospice Conversation in Two Parts

A Hospice Conversation in Two Parts I recently came across a blog post (Speaking Up About Hospice) that had particular impact for me, as I now find myself in the position of professional/kinda-sorta family member. Florence (not her real name, of course) has been my...